If you have located one you are interested in on one of the favorite online Chinese women dating services, I say go for it. Deliver the guy an email and present yourself. Interest their interests, and make certain to shut with a question that moves him to motion, one that requires him to react.
I believe the ultimate way to start is by claiming, “Hi, (their title). I am (your title). We noticed we both like equivalent (band, guide, food, travel destination). I wish to learn about you. Have you been seeing anyone/have you ever before seen (favorite band) in concert/did you realize there is a sequel coming-out to your favorite book?”
Keep it quick and sweet. You should offer him adequate info to spark their interest, although not sufficient to bore or overpower him.